You forgot the name of your new receptionist at work. You told your adolescent son to go to hell. Then kneel on the bed. Your man spanks you using his hand or a hairbrush or a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory. Why: Spanking feels good, actually.
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A smart smack on the butt creates a tingly, alert sensation that combines well with the other feelings of sex. Variation: The sensations are especially interesting if he combines them with playing with the other body parts on display during your spanking. This is an excellent time to try inserting a vibrator. You need: A big towel or blanket and a bottle of massage oil or cream. How to play: Spread your towel on the bed or carpet and grease each other up with massage oil — legs, torso, breasts, everywhere. Now roll around for awhile and Why: You will really be surprised at the difference a little lubricant makes in the feeling of skin on skin.
Sure, it's a little messy. But worth it. Variation: If you have a favorite secluded spot, this is fun to do outdoors , even on your own patio. Tip: Don't put mint or eucalyptus oil on sensitive genital areas. But if you have a non-irritating lubricant, greasing up the sexual equipment can be part of the fun.
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But remember that oil-based lubricants, including massage oil, can degrade latex. So don't play this game if you're using condoms or a diaphragm. You need: Scissors, a brand-new razor, and shaving cream. How to play: Your partner shaves your pubic hair. First, take a hot bath to soften your skin and hair. Second, use scissors to trim the length. Third, lie on the bed or on a table and let that shaving expert, your mate, foam you up and shave you.
It's scary at first, but if he's gentle you will not get nicked. He can shave everything or just neaten you up. Why: Even though guys know what they see in porn isn't realistic, you'd be amazed at what a little one-time novelty can do for your sex life. Variation: Shave yourself without telling your partner, and let him discover what you've done. Be careful when shaving parts you cannot see this is what mirrors are for. Also, once you've shaved, decorating yourself with the edible treat of his choice — whipped cream, warmed fudge sauce, frozen orange-juice concentrate — can be fun.
Note: Later, use baby lotion or another gentle cream to soothe the freshly shaved skin. And yes, it does get a little itchy when it grows back. Totally normal. But here's how to tell when it's not. You need: If you'd like to get the action started with a board game , try one of the below options.
What to play: I. U The Game of Hidden Pleasures , Sexopoly , and Kaamastra You and Me are all easy-to-play games that'll ease you into playing sexy games with your partner. Why: This could be a funny but hot! How to play: Give each suit a sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing , diamonds equal a massage, clubs signify hands-on stimulation, and spades are oral. The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Take turns picking cards and teasing one another. Why: This exciting game of foreplay will make you move at a teasingly slow pace that will leave both of you ready for more.
Variation: Make the moves even more intense by doing them for minutes, not seconds. How to play: Use this as an opportunity to learn more about your guy and try your craziest sex fantasies. Take turns playing the classic game, making sure your requests really reveal what you want.
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Ava Cadell, author of The Power To Mindful Love And Sex , says any couple can make it a very sexual game that leads to lots of laughs, fun, and carefree lovemaking. Variation: Take your dares outside of the bedroom and get down to business all over your house.
I was having a hard time mentally and feeling very anxious about stuff, and writing erotica felt like a release. Writing erotica has helped me to think about how bodies interact with each other. At the moment, a lot of my stories go on a website called Kayleigh Daniels Dated. Kayleigh herself is a dark-skinned Black woman, and her dates are all kinds of people. In my experience, there are hardly any portrayal of women of color owning their sexuality. I want people who aren't so sure of their sexuality to be able to read the stories and think, Oh there's no judgement and shame here.
Maybe I can try out some of the stuff that's been written about in these stories.
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